During challenging times, it's quite common for people to seek comfort in food. Emotional eating, as it's called, is a natural response that many individuals all over the world experience.

"Emotional eating is eating as a way to suppress or soothe negative emotions, such as stress, anger, fear, boredom, sadness and loneliness."~ Mayo Clinic

In times of emotional turmoil, there's an undeniable solace that can be found in certain foods, particularly those known as "comfort foods" that are rich in sugar or fats. Whether it's a disagreement with your boss or a day where everything seems to go wrong, reaching for a brownie or indulging in a big bowl of mac and cheese can offer a sense of temporary relief. While these moments of comfort are common and generally harmless, it's crucial to distinguish between occasional indulgences and a recurring pattern of emotional eating.

When emotional eating becomes a prevalent coping mechanism, it can evolve into a harmful cycle that may lead to weight gain, health complications, and increased emotional discomfort. The food provides a fleeting distraction from pressing worries, but the underlying emotional issue remains unaddressed. As soon as the comfort from eating subsides, the original emotional distress re-emerges, often compounded by feelings of guilt for overeating.

It's important to remember, however, that if you're struggling with emotional eating, you're not alone, and it's not your fault. This behavior is not indicative of a lack of willpower or self-control, but rather a response to stress or emotional discomfort. Recognizing and understanding this is the first step towards breaking free from the cycle of emotional eating and moving towards healthier coping mechanisms.

The Science Behind Emotional Eating

There has been extensive research conducted on emotional eating, with many studies linking it to various psychological factors such as anxiety, depression, and trauma. Studies have also found that women are more likely to engage in emotional eating than men.

Short-term stress can suppress appetite as the nervous system signals the adrenal glands to release epinephrine, which activates the fight-or-flight response and temporarily inhibits eating. With prolonged stress, however, cortisol is secreted by the adrenal glands, increasing appetite and possibly the drive to eat. Typically, cortisol levels drop when stress passes, but continuous stress or a malfunctioning stress response can keep cortisol levels high.

Additionally, stress influences cravings for foods high in fat and sugar, potentially due to the interaction between cortisol and insulin. Consuming such "comfort foods" may alleviate stress-related reactions and feelings, reinforcing a cycle of stress-induced cravings for these foods.

Studies have also found that emotional eaters often experience feelings of guilt and shame after episodes of overeating, which can further exacerbate the cycle of emotional eating. This negative self-perception can lead to a decrease in self-esteem and an increase in emotional distress, creating a vicious cycle.

Understanding the Impact of Emotional Eating

The negative consequences of emotional eating extend far beyond weight gain. Over time, emotional eating can contribute to a range of health issues, including:


Emotional eating is a significant risk factor for obesity, which is associated with various health problems, including heart disease, stroke, and certain types of cancer.

high blood pressure

Consuming excessive amounts of sugary and fatty foods can lead to an increase in blood pressure, which can contribute to the development of hypertension.


Emotional eating, especially when it involves consuming large amounts of processed and unhealthy foods, can contribute to insulin resistance and the development of type 2 diabetes.

elevated cholesterol levels

Foods high in sugar and unhealthy fats can lead to an increase in cholesterol levels, which can contribute to heart disease and other health issues.

eating disorders

Emotional eating can also contribute to the development of eating disorders, such as bulimia nervosa and binge eating disorder.

mental health issues

Emotional eating can exacerbate symptoms of depression, anxiety, and other mental health conditions, which can have a significant impact on an individual's well-being.

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Identifying Your Emotional Eating Triggers

Emotional eating often stems from learned behaviors and coping mechanisms developed over time. Identifying your emotional eating triggers is crucial to understanding and addressing this issue.

Here are a few strategies to help you identify your triggers:

  • Use a diary. Track your food intake and emotional state alongside each entry. This can help you identify patterns and associations between your emotions and eating habits.

  • Practice mindfulness. Pay attention to your thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations before, during, and after eating. This can help you recognize emotional eating triggers as they arise.

  • Seek professional guidance. A therapist can help you identify underlying emotional issues that may contribute to emotional eating and develop personalized strategies for coping with triggers.

Developing Healthy Coping Strategies

Overcoming emotional eating requires developing alternative coping mechanisms to address the underlying emotions that drive unhealthy eating habits. 

11 Effective coping strategies:

1. stress management techniques

Exercise, meditation, yoga, and deep breathing exercises can be effective in helping reduce stress and anxiety, which are common triggers for emotional eating.

2. Emotional expression

Journaling, talking to a therapist or trusted friend, and engaging in creative outlets can help you process and express your emotions in a healthy way.

3. self-care practices

Engaging in hobbies, spending time in nature, getting enough sleep, and practicing relaxation techniques can promote overall well-being and reduce the need for emotional eating.

4. physical activity

Regular physical activity is not only beneficial for physical health, but it also plays a crucial role in stress management and emotional well-being. It encourages the release of endorphins - the body's natural mood boosters - and promotes better sleep, both of which can decrease the impulse to turn to food for comfort.

5. support networks

Connecting with others, whether it's friends, family, or a support group, can provide an outlet for emotions and reduce feelings of isolation. Sharing your experiences and challenges can help lighten your emotional load and offer you different perspectives.

6. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) 

This form of therapy can be highly effective in managing emotional eating. CBT helps you understand your behaviors and thoughts and teaches you skills to manage stress and cope with life's challenges in healthier ways.

7. mindful eating

Mindful eating means paying full attention to your hunger and satiety cues, the taste and texture of your food, and your emotions during and after eating. To be most effective, it is useful to practice mindful eating as much as possible, and not just when emotional triggers are driving the urge to eat. Mindful eating encourages a healthier and more balanced relationship with food overall.

8. healthy sleep habits

Lack of sleep can increase cravings for unhealthy foods and disrupt your body’s hunger and fullness signals. Prioritizing good quality sleep can therefore be a key strategy in managing emotional eating.

9. balanced nutrition

Ensuring your meals and snacks are balanced and nutritious can help keep blood sugar levels stable, curb cravings, and reduce impulses to binge. Including plenty of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean proteins, and healthy fats in your diet can contribute to overall well-being and help manage emotional eating.

10. professional nutrition advice

Dietitians and nutritionists can provide personalized eating plans that consider your lifestyle, preferences, and emotional eating tendencies. They can provide guidance on balancing nutrients, portion sizes, and meal timing to avoid emotional overeating.

11. positive affirmations

While it may seem simple, the power of positive thinking should not be underestimated. Replacing negative thoughts with positive affirmations can help improve your self-esteem and promote a healthier relationship with food.

Professional Help and Resources

Overcoming emotional eating can be challenging, and seeking professional help is often a necessary step towards recovery.

Psychology Today noted that a 2017 review article "...found that specific types of therapy – including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) – show promise for helping people to stop or avoid emotional eating."

Many employers offer employee assistance programs (EAPs) that provide confidential counseling and support services for a variety of personal and work-related issues, including emotional eating. EAPs can be a valuable resource for accessing professional help at no or low cost.

A therapist can provide you with the tools and support you need to:

  • Understand the root causes of your emotional eating. Identifying underlying psychological issues or unresolved traumas can help you develop effective coping strategies.

  • Develop personalized treatment plans. Therapists can tailor treatment plans to your individual needs and preferences, incorporating various therapeutic approaches, such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and mindfulness-based interventions.

  • Address co-occurring conditions. If you have a mental health condition, such as depression or anxiety, addressing these conditions can significantly improve your emotional regulation and reduce the risk of emotional eating.
Remember, seeking help is not a sign of weakness. It takes strength and courage to acknowledge and address our challenges. With the right support and strategies, it is possible to overcome emotional eating.

Overcoming Emotional Eating is Achievable

Emotional eating is a complex issue with no quick fixes. However, with the right understanding, strategies, and support, you can break free from the cycle of emotional eating and regain control of your eating habits and emotions.

Rest assured;  you are not alone in navigating this journey. There are many resources available to help you along the way, including your employee assistance program, therapists, registered dietitians, and support groups. Take the first step towards a healthier relationship with food and emotions today. 

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